I have a lifetime of sexual experience. I am explicit about how and when I am able to achieve arousal and orgasm. Sadly, it does not occur with a lover but that does not mean that a woman cannot enjoy close physical intimacy with someone she loves. An appreciation of eroticism is key to enjoying orgasm alone. But with a lover, a woman simply needs a good sense of humour, the generosity of spirit to enjoy giving pleasure and a willingness to engage on men’s enjoyment of eroticism.