A balanced family is one in which the governing members (say parents) establish a society in which, even when one disagrees with the decisions of the other, the rest of the family is not involved, an open communication is established, consider the criteria of all members equally in each issue that involves the operation of the home for joint activities, decoration and even the reprimand of a member for some error without reaching shame or moral crushing. You must have a discipline protocol that contains a strong hand to discipline and a soft hand to cushion without paternalism, but with love and tenderness. Love must be present in every action without taboos, must be expressed at all times and demonstrate with acts, the simple touch of the head of a member is enough to show that we are there and that you can count on this. The collaboration and the delegation of tasks to each of the members has a vital weight, since teamwork and mutual collaboration consolidate the unity of the family, enriches the filial relationships and endows them with pleasant and even negative experiences that future strengthen the family and prepare them to face the vicissitudes of life with aplomb and organization with or without the tutoring of the elderly.