In SUSY we add a second higgs doublet, so we end up with eight degrees of freedom. Three are eaten by the Standard model gauge bosons, leaving 5 higgs bosons.
my questions is: why are the 3 degrees of freedom eaten only by Standard model particles rather than 3 Standard model and 3 SUSY particles: why the asymmetry? Would the situation be different without SUSY-breaking? If it helps to visualize the problem, the asymmetry is most striking if you imagine that we lived in a world where the mass scales where reversed: the SM is off at some high SUSY-breaking scale, and our world consists of superparters. Would we not have gauge theory and electroweak symmetry breaking, or would the gaugino sector require electroweak symmetry breaking?