Well, you can't convince yourself of loving something you don't love. But if what you do isn't that awful, provided that you are a little optimistic, you can find your way into loving it.
The problem is when the thing you really love is right there, always around. It never gets easy.
Not everybody has the privilege to really do what he loves and make a living or a fortune out of it.
Everybody strives for it, but not everybody has achieved it yet. It is like the best job you can imagine, if you make money by doing what you really love, so that your job doesn’t feel like work anymore at all. But more than often we have bills to pay and maybe with our passionate hobby as an artist we cannot cover them (yet).
So we feel frustrated, forced into doing something just for the sake of earning money. We might not enjoy working for that other company anymore because we tell yourself that we want to work for ourselves and follow our found purpose in life.
A behavior is likely to be repeated if it is reinforced by some positive reward. Another approach defend the idea that we perform actions because we hold certain favorable beliefs about that action and we are motivated to perform that action.The above statement is true for those who score high on delayed gratification test. Delayed gratification means waiting long for better and more reward than become tempted to get immediate reward.
Love is God -God is Love . It has no measurement as it has directly connected with the inner urge & divinity within us .However for some years back I have received an opportunities to express my views in the similar line which I submit herewith for your kind perusal .
Love is natural it comes from the within & the most important the determination for the love results from the language of mind & heart . In this line Love can not be called a secret .
With this the roots of love starts from our mother & the feelings & attachment which we have received & gather from our mother play an important part in creating an environment of natural love effective every members of the family including our own & also connected with the member of our social groups.
If we have within us such nature of LOVE not only our personal life & family become happy & share with us all the enjoyable movement of our life jointly not only this keeps us healthy surrounding where the natural disturbance factors just as Worries,Tension ,& Frustration get avoided .
It means that you give full acceptance towards your current life situation. As well as, live your life contented satisfied and patient until you find the work you love.