Men experience a sex drive to engage in intercourse. This is natural given the reproductive precedent - survival of the species. So men expect women to naturally respond in some way to this male initiative. Intercourse has evolved from an act of male territorial assault. So men are naturally aroused by a response even if a woman is objecting. This is why the porno actresses make so much noise. Men promise women sexual pleasure in the hope that women will offer the intercourse men want.
Thanks Stephen for your support! It is incredibly difficult to get anyone, professional or otherwise, to acknowledge that there might be a difference between erotic fiction and a scientific description of sexuality. This is especially true for women and undoubtedly explains their silence on sexual topics. Sex is massively political due to the rewards men offer in return for sex.
Vaginal orgasms are not a figment of the imagination, according to science, so not invented by a man. I also have anecdotal evidence. This is minimising women's sexual experiences, like saying they are making it up. Perhaps those who say it isn't true do so because they haven't experienced it themselves.
No one can orgasm from stimulation that does not continue up until orgasm. Intercourse ends with male orgasm. It is entirely dependent on male responses which are spontaneous and cannot be coordinated with a lover's responses. Women mistake orgasm. Many fake it. Most women have no idea what sexual response involves because they never masturbate. They think orgasm equates to vague sensual and emotional sensations during lovemaking. Orgasm is a specific response of the human mind and body. No one can name even one female erotic turn-on with a lover.
Iwould like to clarify that most of these ideas are just ideas circulating among many people and do not reflect reality. The rates of orgasm differ between women and men, and it cannot be said that the orgasm of any man is more important.
It's not about gender, it's about the person, and everyone experiences orgasm in their own way.
Thanks Ghania for commenting. What is important is to differentiate between erotic fiction and reality. No one discusses male orgasm because it occurs regularly and reliably. Men do not talk of their own orgasms because orgasm ends a man's ability to enjoy the pleasure of arousal and intercourse. The original research that highlighted the fact that some women experience orgasm clearly indicated that female orgasm is associated with clitoral stimulation and women's solitary masturbatory activities. But the world reacted to the sensation and insisted that women should orgasm with a lover contrary to the research. Certainly Kinsey found that responsiveness (the ability to orgasm and the frequency of orgasm) varies considerably between individuals.
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