The representation of ethical dilemma is admittedly a quite difficult topic. On the first hand, the very definition of what constitute a dilemma is subject to numerous vivid discussions and debates among philosophers (from Kant denying the existence of such things as ethical dilemma to Sartre and the famous example of the existential dilemma).
Nevertheless, it seems plausible that since ethical dilemma actually exists (at least according to persons subject to these dilemma) and therefore should be representable. Here comes another difficulty, more theoretical and grounded in the very essence of what constitute a dilemma. A dilemma, it would seem, is a contradiction, a conflict between two (or more) obligations that can't be mutually fulfilled.
Modal logic and particularly deontic logic studies the relations between Propositional Calculus and the deontic operators ([] obligation and permission). I have not been able to find an interpretation of these operators in description logic. I would be interested in opinion concerning relations between deontic operators and the usual constructors of description logic (set intersections/existential and universal quantification).