Due to heavy population and competition in studies,job,even more better future,nowadays parents are pressurizing their children in choosing their future field either engineering or medical lead them to the final end.
It is essential to have value based education The parents do missed that as in the past three decades memorizing and getting high score was their agenda and parents too in that. So the identification of children's taste and abilities are must. Further they should be taught , "Love yourself and Love what you do " should be the mantra that every one should follow to avoid all these. Not all engineers or Doctor is rich. Those who excel in what they do alone happen to be the best in every thing. It can be medicine or music or history. Live for your need and not to your greed is another mantra every one should follow. Next what others will think should not be bothered as you cannot control one's thinking. Last but not the least Don't compare with others to make your life or kith and kin's life. Let children play and be happy in learning. Never send the children for a best school of 120 KM If the school is near he or she can have a life.
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Thanks for the instant and prompt response to my clear my doubt.Those two mantras if everybody try to follow then there is no such losses of life in vain.
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In the past , I have been counseling the students to avert extreme steps and put them back to normal life, and some became the best too. In the process my learning started and , in the end these are my conclusions to make one's life -The best. High scores doesn't mean you are the best, but your memorizing capacity is good at the cost of values that you missed in life.
Parents target children to have their ego and status, without understanding what the children like and capable. So also these days school take higher rankings by stressing student and teachers. End is frustration
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