Dear Sergio, for teaching Differential and Integral Calculus I suggest James Stewart's Calculus series; for Differential Equations W. Boyce and R. DiPrima, Elementary Differential Equations and Boundary Value Problems; as software, I use Mathematica, but Matlab and Scilab are equally ok.  Gianluca

In addition to the previous answer I want to recommend Maple. Also there was a good relatively comfortable mathematical package called Mathcad, but it is no longer supported.

A popular all-in-one textbook for engineering students is this one:

https://www.amazon.com/Advanced-Engineering-Mathematics-Erwin-Kreyszig/dp/0470458364

A more solid self-standing Calculus text would be 

https://www.amazon.com/Calculus-Complete-Course-Robert-Adams/dp/0321781074

For Ordinary Differential Equations, 

https://www.amazon.com/Differential-Equations-Shepley-L-Ross/dp/0471032948

For Partial Differential Equations, try

http://www.worldscientific.com/worldscibooks/10.1142/p018h

or

ttps://www.amazon.com/Differential-Equations-Scientists-Engineers-Mathematics/dp/048667620X

Thank´s for all answers.                                                                                                  Will the change in the teaching of Integral and Differential Calculus by softwares suffer the same discontinuity as the teaching of drawing and engineering projects caused by softwares like CAD, Solid Edge?. 

We at the TU Vienna use mathlab with good success!