Hi Monika Waller - I would imagine we did a fine job of discussing this at brunch today. Thanks for meeting me, GREAT chat. I suppose it's about both the evolving internal, personal strength that spills out into higher quality, more honest and authentic relationships AND diligently building your external resources so you can make best use of them. Then I think the who, is the whomever serves at the time and in the way that is mutually beneficial without labels and the need for the same background. Often as we discussed a variety in backgrounds leads to richer, more diverse experiences (openness to new opportunities anyone??)