I am doing a research about development of theory of mind, and I would like use ERP, I need to know the components associated to theory of minf and the paradigm used in this kind of studies.
Why sticking with ERPs? There is so much more information in the EEG signal. For such a rather complex construct as theory of mind, I would expect that there are several brain regions involved. So, TOM might be a process of mutual information exchange between these areas, rather a single ERP component. You should think about other measures, such as coherence, imaginary coherence etc to catch possible information "flow".