You can use any FEM software that can solve contact problems given that you want to model the interaction between the strands. Abaqus or Ansys might work for you in this case.A relatively difficult task will be to define realistic friction models at the interfaces.
Finite element modelling depends on your demands. Would you like to consider rope with strands? strands with filaments? or a round profile. Moreover, would you fancy to run static, dynamic, and thermal analysis?
Kindly, clear up what are your inputs and what be expected for outputs?
The way I see it, we can answer your question properly.
I have a good news for you. Abaqus software is able to solve your problem easily. My recommendation for you is firstly learn how to model conceit which is reinforced with steel bars to get whole idea of similar modeling. Since then, when you feel confident in this sort of modeling, you are able to change the relevant materials. To be more precise, please imagine conceit is strand and steel bars are filaments, with considering friction interactions. Thus try to model it as a deformable solid part and analyze it regarding your boundary condition Now you model a strand which comprises the number of filaments. The next step is copy the modeled strand as much as the steel rope included. Then assembly copied strands and go to interaction module and use friction and tie condition. There you go.
For further questions, without any hesitate, comment me to figure out following tips to analyze and modeling with Abaqus software.
Warning, never use the abaqus version 6.12 due to too many bugs to solve problems in the FEM and FEA.