It has been proposed that there are two distinct approaches to grieving (as well as a third “blended” option) which are not gender-based, but which do tend to align with gender (e.g., see Doka & Martin, Grieving Beyond Gender: Understanding the Ways Men and Women Mourn, 2010). Might the instrumental-intuitive response concept be applied to how individuals deal with suicidal feelings as well as to loss? The theories of Joiner (2005) and O’Connor (2011) indicate how an individual may become suicidal and attempt or complete suicide, but not how they feel about or try to cope with the state of being suicidal and the process through which risk may escalate. An “instrumental” response to being suicidal might be characterized by an effort to maintain or regain control, to try to overcome the feelings alone, and to keep any concern to oneself. An “intuitive” response might involve less effort to master suicidal feelings, to not see them as a problem to be solved logically, to share concerns about the feelings, and to seek the help and support of others. Gender social stereotypes may clearly play a greater role in how men and women deal with perceived suicidality than with grief,