1) Area per Lipid (AL) and specially Volume per Lipid (VL);
2) Deuterium order parameter for the lipid hydrophobic chains;
3) Bilayer thickness;
4) Solvation of the lipid headgroups;
5) Orientation of the water molecules around the lipid headgroups.
You also have a software (CTMD) that correlates membrane deformation and free energy costs of membrane deformation (http://memprotein.org/new-continuum-molecular-dynamics-ctmd-software-made-available-by-computational-modeling-core).
Thankyou all for the advice and guidence, I have read the literature and undergone all the relevant papers suggested these suggestions are of great importance