How do parents decide what is bad behaviour for children? How would and how should parents teach such a thing? Moreover, how do they do and how should they give such a training in a real family life setting?
I get perplexed seeing families giving me (as their doctor) uncountable number of differing statements and situations, everyone having a logic of their own, and hardly any two people within the family, and, or within my contacts (1.5 million consults in my life time) have the same understanding, or an answer. Therefore, please throw some light, dear all.
Correct behaviors in the family have a big role to take the correct impression of the child to know what is good and bad. For that parent must be to deal honestly with their children also to act in front of them good manners.
Yes, by personal example, Leonid. Irony is (more in fast developing countries) that we lead a different life and teach something more ideal that we could not live for whatever reason. What could one do in such a common situation? It would, and it does, perplex many social reformers. I am in this dilemma day in and day out in the medical professional work I am and have been involved. I appreciate your input, be that theoretical, logical, or the practical.