probably you’re getting the „java.lang.OutOfMemoryError: Java heap space” message. I tried to resolve it by changing the Java memory setting (-Xms) even to 8GB (java -Xms8192m), but with no success. I’m not sure whether 8GB is still insufficient or maybe some Java library cannot handle SUMO ontology.
I’m not sure if it would solve your problem, but you can upload SUMO ontology to the WebProtégé: http://webprotege.stanford.edu/ or deploy your own server.
Maybe someone here will provide a solution to the Protégé Desktop.