Padesky, C. A. & Greenberger, D. (1995). Clinican's Guide to Mind Over Mood. New York City, NY and London, England: The Guilford Press. Example of Paired Schema: "Some people will reject me if they knew who I really am." "Some people will accept me if they knew who I really am." Example of the Schema of avoidant personality disorder: "People will reject me if I let know who I am" (Padesky & Greenberger, 1995, p. 125)