If I understood you rightly, here is attached a book review on prgmatics, including a few chapters on politeness. Please discard if I misunderstood you. Hope you will find the review useful. Best

You can visit Google Scholar to search for the papers you want.

Here are some useful bibliography:

Cutting J. 2007. Pragmatics and Discourse: a resource book for students.

London: Routledge. 2nd Edition. (§ A3.3-A3.7; A5.3-A6.6)

Boxer D. & Pickering L. 1995. ‘Problems in the presentation of speech acts in

ELT materials the case of complaints’. ELT Journal 49/1:44-58

Schiffrin D. 1994. Approaches to Discourse. Oxford: Basil Blackwell. (Chapters 3 & 6)

Austin J 1962,1975 How to Do Things with Words London etc.: Oxford University Press

Cameron R & Williams J 1997 Sentence to ten cents: a case study of relevance and communicative success in nonnative-native speaker interactions in a medical setting Applied Linguistics Vol. 18, No. 4: 415-445.

Brown P & Levinson S 1987 Politeness: Some Universals in Language Usage Cambridge, New York, etc.: Cambridge University Press also in slightly shorter form as: Universals in language usage: politeness phenomena. In Goody N (ed.) 1978 Questions and Politeness CUP

Fasold R 1990 The Sociolinguistics of Language Cambridge, Mass. & Oxford: Blackwell Chapters 5 and 6.

Grice P 1989 Studies in the Way of Words Cambridge, Mass. & London: Harvard University Press Chapter 2 also in Cole P & Morgan J L (eds.) 1969 1989Syntax and Semantics 3: Speech Acts Academic Press

Searle J R 1969 Indirect Speech Acts. In Cole P & Morgan J L (eds.) Syntax and Semantics 3: Speech Acts Academic Press

Thomas J (1983) Cross-cultural pragmatic failure' Applied Linguistics Vol. 4 No. 2: 91-112