If you have a data set, then try fitting the Gaussian distribution to your data. After that, you can extract the mean, μ, and the standard deviation, σ. See examples here:
You may try to design your own FLC and optimize the MFs like this paper posted on https://www.researchgate.net/publication/344638760_Dimensioning_and_Power_Management_of_Hybrid_Energy_Storage_Systems_for_Electric_Vehicles_with_Multiple_Optimization_Criteria