If I'm understanding your question correctly, you can use coding stripes (http://help-nv11.qsrinternational.com/desktop/procedures/use_coding_stripes_to_explore_coding.htm) or highlighting (http://help-nv11.qsrinternational.com/desktop/procedures/highlight_coding_references.htm) to see all coding for a particular source.
Questions like, does anyone know how I can see which nodes I chose for a specific file in NVIVO seem to me to be a research question that has to be answered by conducting appropriate research. What I am wondering about is that some people are trying to answer your question. Well and good. But, after getting their answer are we going to ask further, additional questions about the asnwer we get.