Putrajaya Wetlands in Malaysia is a good example for operational level wetlands in tropical setting. Though it was built not for treating grey water, the wetlands managed to filter incoming pollutant from surrounding catchment consisting of golf course and an agricultural land before flowing into the Putrajaya Lake.
Actual design calculation for constructed wetland prototype both for Vertical flow root zone and horizontal flow root zone treatment is available for research purposes.
Are you interested in vertical root zone treatment or horizontal ? Both the papers are attached for your conducting research. Both these papers are on research gate.net
In case if you need to further interact pl let me know. The info can be made available to you from dissertation of both my students
Prof Dr K N Sheth Dean Gujarat Technological University Ahmedabad
You may wish to contact Prof. Kalori Njau of the Nelson Mandela Institution of Engineering Science and Technology in Arusha, Tanzania. He has constructed several of such Wetlands and his advice could be handy.