I have poverty index, population density (women and children),conflicts and livelihoods. Please assign weights according to your opinion, experience and expertise in this field
I am not an expert in this field, so this is just a reflection on your inquiry. Because vuInerability is contextual, I would expect experts who do not have information about your specific context to be cautious with explicitly assigning weights to the different factors you mention. Unweighted is also a possibility.
I have found this article useful as a sobering introduction to methodological choices associated with vulnerability indexing: Jones and Andrey. 2007. Vulnerability index construction: methodological choices and their influence on identifying vulnerable neighbourhoods. Int. J. Emergency Management, Vol. 4, No. 2.