I think that when women and men date, they are more likely to be attracted to each other, so don't blindly cater to all the requirements of men, and keep your own attitude! Dating is a meeting between men and women. Just relax and face it.
As for the things that need attention, such as: dressing style, conversation style, dating venue and dating time, etc., after the two parties end the date, if they think that the man is reliable, they can leave a contact information for the next date.
As for other things that need attention, you can also write them down and discuss them together.