This is just about photons. The clock on a photon never ticks. I have in the past characterized this as a photon having an attention span of zero. Also, the universe to a photon is completely flat in the direction of its propagation, although i'm not sure what direction means in this case. So, consider a couple of correlated (entangled) photons. Don't they appear and disappear at the same point in space and time as they see it? So what is the problem with the action at a distance when the distance and time between them is zero as far as they are concerned?